Yes, Beyonce is a very weird title for a blog post of mine. I don't know anything about her, I don't listen to her music, I've never seen her in a movie.
But, tonight, I saw her on an Oprah rerun (long story, family gone, cleaned up as much as possible, having a couple of glasses of wine and relaxing in front of the tv). She had a quote I liked as Oprah was relentlessly pushing her, trying to get details on her wedding which she obviously did not want to share, and questioning her on whether she enjoyed being someone's "wife". Her only words of advice were:
"Make sure you have a life before you make yourself a wife"